Comments on: Making home for baby

By: tio

tio — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 12:40:24 +0000

Hi Lifeslurper. I’ve come to you via Journey Girl and ICLW. I’m another Australian IF blogger.
Although it has clearly been stressful, I think moving out of this rental will be good for you. It is clearly not a healthy place for you, and OH MY GOD, I don’t know how you have put up with landlords like that.
Don’t feel bad about resenting this woman’s pregnancy and birth. Most of us IFers have felt similar things at one time or another… and in this situation you OWE THIS WOMAN NOTHING. Your feelings are natural, and even if not entirely just, they are causing her no harm at all. I think you can safely plead extenuating circumstances.

tio.

By: WifeyC

WifeyC — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 16:02:11 +0000

((HUGS)) Sorry that you are going through such a complete an utter mess of a situation.

ICLW

By: Half of a Duo, Raising a Duo

Half of a Duo, Raising a Duo — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 11:45:42 +0000

I have been online since 4 trying to spread the ICLW love.

Your post was and could have been me 8 years ago.

I now have, at the age of 48, 21 month old fraternal twin sons via surrogacy. They are the LIGHT OF MY LIVE. My reason for existence. I NEVER GAVE UP. Ever. I am TOTALLY BARREN. No eggs, no cervix, no uterus. No nothing. Failed adoptions, lost children who passed at birth and late term… I have been through hell and back.

I never gave up.

do NOT give up.

Blessings to you in the New year. Do not watch TV. I turned off the TV from Halloween through the New year. It’s better that way. Less pain.

Hugs, the grey lady who NEVER gave up.

By: Kenny

Kenny — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:09:25 +0000

I feel terrible that you had to go through this. No one should have to. What a horrible situation! I’m praying that things get better for you !!

ICLW